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Self-Care Holiday Guide 2020 | Courageous Action Collective

A few years ago, I created my first Self-Care Holiday Gift Guide, but this year I wanted to create a gift guide that would help you strengthen your Self-Care skills. In my free annual Self-Care Planner, I share eight key long-term Self-Care Skills: Relational, Spiritual, Professional, Emotional, Environmental, Physical, Psychological, and Personal. Each of these Self-Care Skills will help you take courageous action in 2022.

Each of these gift guides are meant to inspire you in creating your own holiday wish list and helping you buy a gift for the sister-in-law that has everything. One of the goals of this gift guide is to help you find tangible items that will remove barriers to self-care. There is nothing magical about any of these specific products, but if you set your intentions for these tangible items to be used as self-care, they can become tools for self-care. Also, you may see things you already own, please use those items too. I hope this holiday gift guide helps you to see self-care differently and more accessible. Also, none of these are affiliate links and they are just to spark your imagination. If this is helpful, pin any of these images to Pinterest to keep for shopping later. Happy Holidays!

Relational Self-Care Gifts

The goal of Relational Self-Care Skills is to have strong and life-giving relationships with people that you can connect with and can fully show up as yourself. 
The specific practices are: I ask for help. I spend time with life-giving people. I say “No” when I need to say “No.” I have hard conversations. I do not people please.

Relational Self-Care Holiday gift guide

Table Topics Conversation Cards: Connect with family and friends through fun conversation. If your year has been like my year, I am ready for conversations other than about the pandemic, economy, or politics. This is a great gift to have more intentional, but enjoyable conversations. Some of my favorite holiday memories with my family include these cards.

The Mind Card Game: Playing cards or board games can be another fun way to share experiences with loved ones. Drop your favorite board game to play in the comments below.

Cheese Boards: This can be a great gift if you are wanting to host more. Ps. Trader Joes has great affordable cheeses.

Hot Dog & Marshmallow Roasters: Are you planning on spending more time around a fire pit this winter with life-giving people? Add a s’mores making kit to your themed gift.

Portable Heater: Another great option for spending time with friends outside this winter. This portable heater gets bonus points because you can use it for camping, which can be a spiritual self-care practice.

Physical Self-Care Gifts:

The goals of Physical Self-Care Skills are to connect with your body and take care of your body in long-term ways. 
The specific practices are: I get enough sleep. I schedule and go to annual doctor’s appointments. I eat meals and snack when I am hungry. I move my body multiple times a week. I listen to my body.

Physical Self-Care Holiday Gift Guide 2020 | Nashville TN

Zella High Waist Leggings: Who doesn’t want another pair of high-waisted leggings? These are great due to their rating of 4.5 with 7,000+ reviews and sizing of 00-24. Wearing clothes that actually fit your body is an important piece of self-care.

Peloton App Subscription: Recently, many of us have tried to find new ways to move our bodies at home. You do not have to have their bike or treadmill to use this app. The Peloton App offers a 30-day free trial and has a rating of 4.9 with 364.3K reviews. The app gets self-care bonus points because they have a collection of meditation classes. If you are looking for a free workout option: check out Yoga with Adrienne.

Cook Once Eat All Week: I bought this cookbook last April and immediately told all my friends about it. The cookbook’s premise is batch cook three separate meals at once using one type of meat, one main vegetable, and one starch. Cassie Joy includes a grocery list for that week and modifications if you have dietary restrictions. If you hate to meal plan, but want to meal plan this may be a good first step. Our favorite week of recipes is number six: ground chicken, bell peppers, and rice, which becomes Curried Chicken Lettuce Cups, Firecracker Meatballs, Chicken Burrito Bowls. Recently, she recently released Cook Once Dinner Fix, which helps you use leftovers to create another meal.

Swell Water Bottle: Most of us need to drink more water. Try to listen more to your body for thirst cues. Will a cute water bottle help you with this self-care practice?

Thistle Farm’s Lavender Spa Set: Many of you mentioned using lavender lotion or lavender essential oils in your nighttime routine to help you get more sleep. Our family loves Thistle Farm’s passion and products. If you don’t know this Nashville non-profit, please check out their site. Thistle Farms “provides housing, case management, healthcare, counseling, education, and employment for two years for free. Love heals. Five years after graduation, 75% of their graduates are living healthy, financially independent lives.”

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Spiritual Self-Care Gift Guide:

The goal of Spiritual Self-Care Skills is to connect to something bigger than yourself. 
The specific practices are: I volunteer. I practice gratitude. I am a part of a spiritual community. I spend time in nature. I listen to music.

Spiritual Self-Care Gift Guide

Chacos: One of my favorite spiritual practices is being outdoors. I lived in Chacos in my twenties and got my second pair a few years ago because they last forever. Would a durable pair of outdoor shoes help you get outside more?

Wireless Headphones: Listen up, I feel like I was late to the wireless headphone game. I got this pair for Christmas last year (because I assumed I would lose one immediately and did not want to lose an Apple Earbud). I have used these every single day for almost a year (and not lost them… but I have been in my house for a majority of the year). I listen to podcasts, audiobooks (for free from the library), and Spotify. Also, it is great for handsfree driving.

Emily McDowell Card Set: Want to step up your gratitude practice? Send a card to a life-giving friend and tell them three specific ways you are thankful for them. Ps. Don’t forget to buy stamps and support the USPS.

Waterproof Bluetooth Portable Speaker: Want to listen to music in nature? This gift gets self-care bonus points because you can use it for hosting friends, being in nature, and listening to good music. Again, any portable speaker is great, but I added this one due to it being waterproof.

Wise Owl Hammock: This was one of my birthday gifts in May of 2020. I wanted to be outside more, but from the comfort of my backyard. The Wise Owl Outfitters company is family owned and operated and based in Franklin, TN.

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Psychological Self-Care Gift Guide:

The goals of Psychological Self-Care Skills is to build a healthy mindset and to know how to tune into the helpful thoughts. 
The specific practices are: I trust myself to make the next right choice. I have realistic positive self-talk. I can ignore negative self-talk or can quiet my inner critic. I practice forgiveness and self-forgiveness. I have a mindfulness practice.

Psychological Self-Care Holiday Gift Guide | Nashville Counseling

Emily McDowell Everyday Bravery Enamel Pins: Who doesn’t need some Everyday Bravery? These would be great stocking stuffers. Some of my other favorites are: Ignored the Haters Everyday Bravery Enamel Pin, Found My Voice Everyday Bravery Enamel Pin, and Loved Myself Everyday Bravery Enamel Pin.

Inspiring Art Prints: Many of you have said that having an inspiring art print up in your room or office helps with positive self-talk and quieting your inner critic. If Lindsay Letter’s “Read Fiction Be Real” isn’t what you are looking for then check out Lisa Congdon’s “Your Actions Matter” and Ohhappydani’s “Worthy Print.” If you have a favorite inspiring art print, please share it in the comments below.

Bullet Journal: Of course a therapist would include a journal in her self-care gift guide. Whether you want a bullet journal or use a regular journal (Rifle Paper’s Wildwood Fabric Journal or Lisa Congdon’s Your Story Matters Journal) you will benefit from having a place to write down your thoughts and process your emotions, which will help you decide on your next right choice. Ps. Add some favorite pens to your wishlist.

The Gifts of Imperfection: This book is a great place to start if you are going to read one self-help book this year. If this is your first time to read The Gifts of Imperfection then please take the Wholehearted Living Inventory to give you insight on your current strengths and growth areas. It is a great free assessment. Brené Brown is one of my favorite authors due to the way she shares her research with compelling stories. This is the 10th anniversary edition of Gifts of Imperfection and has updated and added practices and a new forward.

Headspace Meditation App: Beginning a mindfulness practice can feel a little daunting, but I recommend using guided meditations to begin. First choose your intention: sleep better, focus more, or stress less and then try a few short (three minutes to ten minutes) beginner meditations to begin your practice. If you are looking for a different free meditation app, I like the Insight Timer App.

Emotional Self-Care Gifts:

The goal of Emotional Self-Care Skills is to have practices in place to handle big emotions when life is difficult. 
The specific practices are: I laugh often. I offer self-compassion in difficult moments. I journal or share emotions with a safe person. I notice and hold space for BIG emotions. I use coping skills and strategies when needed.

Emotional Self-Care Holiday Gift Guide | Jessica McCoy Counseling

Olive and June Manicure System: A manicure kit feels like a very traditional self-care gift, but one way to level up your self-care is using your nail polish to help notice and hold space for BIG emotions. When you notice you are feeling BIG feelings (fear, sadness, shame, guilt, loneliness, anger, or hurt) you can mindfully paint your nails while you sit with your feelings. This is a short practice of sitting with your feelings while you paint your nails. Once your nails are dry, you can journal or share your emotions with a safe person.

Feelings Chart: Even adults need a feelings chart. If you notice a feeling that needs support by using coping skills, then this is a great initial start. This is a great tool to have on your fridge and make it a whole family affair if you want to check in with your roommates or family during dinner.

Preemptive Love Candles: These candles are a great option because they are made by women affected by the Iraq war, but any candle will work for this self-care practice. Using candles to tune into your senses is one way to feel more grounded and connected to your body. Tuning into what you are feeling, smelling, seeing, hearing and tasting is a mindfulness practice.

My Therapy Cards by Dr. Ebony: I bought these self-exploration cards this summer and have loved them. Dr. Ebony created a set of cards to help you process your mindset, trigger responses, and habits. I have used them personally and with clients. These cards can help you create new coping skills and habits when you feel triggered. Ps. She is a great follow on Instagram.

Mantrabands: Want your favorite coping skill as a reminder as a bracelet? There are lots of empowering bracelets that can help you set your intention for the day. Here are some more incredible bracelets: Laurel Denise’s leather “Be You Bravely” bracelet, Lillian and Co.’s “There’s a Great Big Beautiful Tomorrow” bracelet (for my Disney Parks Fans), and River Valley Jewelry’s "She believed she could, so she did" bracelet.

Environmental Self-Care Gifts:

The goals of Environmental Self-Care Skills are to create calmer and healthier spaces for you and to help build a better environment for everyone else. 
The practices in this skill are: I live in a calm home. I remove toxic people from my life. I intentionally disconnect from technology. I work to make a safer world for ALL people. I have a morning and night time routine.

Environmental Self-Care Holiday Gift Guide 2020 | Jessica McCoy Counseling

“Anatomy of an Ally” Art Print: Danielle Coke, or OhHappyDani, reminds us of one way we can use our self-care to make a safer world for ALL people. One central tenet of self-care is caring more for ourselves will lead us to care more for humankind. This art print is one way to keep that guiding principle before us. Ps. Follow @ohhappydani on Instagram for more of her inspiring art.

Planters: Many of you mentioned that plants in cute planters is a calming feature in your home. Again, there is nothing magical about these planters, but intentionally adding a cute planter and greenery in home is a way to care for yourself. Note: if trying to keep a plant alive stresses you out try a Pothos, Sansevieria, or ZZ plant... these are great starter plants (also, here is a starter plant collection). But if that feels like a burden, then faux plants are great too.

Cozy Blanket: If you are looking to have a cozier and calmer home, a cozy blanket is always a win. Also, reading under a super soft blanket before bed is an excellent evening routine. This is one of my favorite blankets and it is now a central piece of my work from home office (…our guest bedroom).

Morgan Harper Nichols 2022 Planner: One way to have a calm home is by keeping a calendar up to date with events. If you want to level up your self-care, then scheduling in Margin or White Space on your calendar to keep you rested. This calendar is extra fun due to Morgan Harper Nichol’s beautiful and inspiring artwork, which is perforated and comes out easy and can be framed or gifted to friends.

Disney Circle: Does your family need help intentionally disconnecting from technology? Disney created a parental control device to manage screen time, device usage, and “pausing” the internet. One of the best ways to make more time for self-care is disconnecting from technology. Fifteen fewer minutes online could be fifteen more minutes of creativity or working on your hobbies.

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Personal Self-Care Gifts:

The goal of Personal Self-Care Skills is to move towards taking care of yourself as an individual. 
The specific practices are: I understand my financial situation & use a budget. I have short-term and long-term goals. I have a hobby or passion project. I have created a vision board. I have a creative outlet.

Personal Self-Care Gifts | 2020 Holiday Gift Guide


Kindle: So many of you shared that your Kindle was one of your most used self-care tools. Kindles or E-readers can be great for saving money and space if you are a reader. Pro-Tip: see if your public library has an app for ebooks (and audiobooks).

Subscription to Magazine that Aligns with a Hobby: This was another great idea shared with me for developing a hobby or creative endeavor. There are magazines for so many types of hobbies and crafts. Click here for some more options.

You Need A Budget App Subscription: One major Self-Care Skill is understanding your financial situation and using a budget. The YNAB app is just one way to track spending and make financial goals. They have a free 34-day trial to see if it is a good fit for you. Also, they have a helpful podcast to help you understand your financial situation better.

Candle Making Kit: Making your own candles is one example of developing a hobby or creative pursuit Paddywax, a Nashville candle company, offers a candle making kit. This may not be the hobby for you, but give some time thinking about a hobby you want to try. Please add your favorite hobby or creative endeavor in the comments below to inspire others.

Baking Cookbook: Does this feel very 2020? My husband has this cookbook and I am grateful for it! Baking is another example of a hobby. Another way to make cooking a fun hobby is cooking through a cookbook. Not only does it remove some decision making around what is for dinner, but it can be a fun “challenge” for this winter.

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Professional Self-Care Gifts:

The goals of Professional Self-Care Skills are to create a healthier work/life balance and to help you thrive in your career. 
The specific practices in this skill are: I know the “why” behind the work I do. I take sick/vacation days. I set and keep boundaries.I have professional goals.I advocate for myself.

Professional Self-Care Gifts | Holiday self-care gift guide 2020 |

Dare to Lead: I love this book by Brené Brown. Due to the shifts a lot of businesses and schools navigated this year, this book is an incredible read to help you strengthen your leadership skills and influence your professional goals. If you are struggling with advocating for yourself, this book gives tangible practices to help your “rumble” with hard conversations. Also, she has a new podcast called Dare to Lead on Spotify to help us better understand and apply key leadership concepts.

Full Focus Planner: Who loves a good planner? The Full Focus Planner is a popular one for professionals due to its goal driven design. If you are working on putting your short-term and long-term professional goals into action, this may be a good place to start. Planners can help you keep boundaries around your time, which is another self-care practice. Also, it has pages dedicated to morning and evening routines, plus a section for your self-care. Note: this planner is meant to be used for 90-days unlike many year-round planners.

Airbnb Gift Cards: There are two ways to use this gift for professional self-care. 1) Take a vacation. 2) Go on a self-led work retreat. If you are a working from home parent, you have full permission to take a work retreat and catch up on all the things that you have not been able to finish with little ones always around. Ps. I will share more later, but a few weeks ago I went on a self-led professional retreat with another therapist friend and we stayed at an AirBnb not far from my house. 10/10 would recommend it if you need to catch up on work (or get ahead on work).

Duffle Bag: One major self-care practice is taking sick days and vacation days. I know many of us have canceled trips due to the pandemic, but if you have vacation days please think about using them (especially if you will “lose them” at the end of the year). One way to prevent professional burnout is taking time off work. Also, you may already have great luggage or a weekender bag, but I wanted to share at least one great product from Nashville’s own Able, a local, ethical fashion company.

Busy Toddler’s Pre-School Curriculum: This one is for the stay at home parents, which is a profession as well. You may not want this specific curriculum under the Christmas tree (even though it is a GREAT one), but I wanted to make sure the stay at home parents were included in this list. Another great option if you are a stay at home parent, is a book on parenting. Again, these ideas are not meant to feel like a burden, so only purchase them if they will serve you.

Happy Holidays! I hope your 2022 is full of Courageous Action.

I know that this has been a difficult year. I am hopeful that this list has inspired you to add some self-care items to your wishlist, but I really hope it helps you see self-care in a new way. Maybe you own many of these items, but never saw them as a tool for self-care. None of these items are magical, but if you name your intention for self-care and use them in meaningful ways, I promise it will help. If you want to make a self-care plan for 2022, please download my free Self-Care Annual Planner.

Comment below with your favorite self-care items or what from this list you are asking for this year.

Want to Know What Other Women Do For Self-Care?

Stuck In a self-care rut? Needing some inspiration?

When I ask what you need to create a self-care plan the answers usually include “more time” and “a better understanding of what self-care actually could look like.” This blog series may not help you find more time, but it will give you a glimpse of what self-care looks like for a handful of wonderful women.

In 2018, I asked a few friends to share what they do for self-care in the Nashville Self-Care series. They shared their practices and inspired many readers to strengthen their current self-care practices. They will share their annual, weekly, and daily self-care practices that they use in their self-care plan. You can read the blog that fits with you most, but each of these women give insight it what may help you build your self-care plan.

Self-care stories and Self-Care Plans can be really Helpful in making your next right step.

I hope these self-care stories give you some helpful tips and clarity around other women’s practices. There is no perfect self-care plan and everyone does it a little differently. You need to find what works for you in this season of life. My self-care practices in 2018 look differently than they did in 2019 as a new mother. Finding long-term self-care skills are necessary for the bad days and make the good days even better.

here are some next Self-Care steps:

If you want to take my Self-Care Skills quiz then take it here. You will receive my free Self-Care Planner in your email after taking the quiz and have weekly emails about Self-Care in your inbox.

If you want to download my free Self-Care Planner without taking the quiz then click here. You will receive the Courageous Action Newsletter with weekly practices and helpful tips to build your Self-Care plan.

If you are wanting to add seeing a licensed therapist as a part of your self-care plan and live in Tennessee, please schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation. If you live outside of Tennessee, then check out Psychology Today’s “Find a Therapist” feature.

Comment below to share what your favorite self-care practice is and inspire the next reader.

Self-Care for Students with Drea Pryor | the nashville self-care series

the nashville self-care series | jessica mccoy counseling

The Nashville Self-Care Series hopes to give you some insight on how different women balance life, work, and relationships while trying to take care of themselves. Everyone does it differently because what works for you may not work for your friends. 

Drea Pryor, like many of the women in the self-care series, wears multiple "hats." She is a therapist, mom, Ph.D. student, and friend. Her self-care dialogue brings a lot of truth about self-care as well as sharing that she too is still trying to navigate self-care and writing a dissertation. So much of self-care is trial and error of what works and what doesn't. 

What does a typical workday look like for you?
So I get to the office super early. Not because I’m an overachiever or anything, mostly because I drop my kiddo off at school and head STRAIGHT into the office. I know if I go home there will be a small chance I’d come back. Also, there is something about sitting in the silence of the day that settles me in the place of humility. Kind of like my come to Jesus time. Once I am in the office, I typically start with breakfast. I am the epitome of the Snickers commercial that says “You’re just not you when you are hungry.” So I’ll have breakfast in a cup which is typically a green smoothie.
I like my client load to be around 4-5 clients per day. I try not to schedule more than 3 clients in a row because I find that I am just not a present if I go further. It’s like I’m sitting with you but I don’t hear you. So to my advantage as well as my client I like to break up my schedule a bit.
Due to the location of my office, get a ton of social time. Working with people that are “my people” is so comforting to me. Not only do I get to share in your life’s events and stories but if ever there is a day that I need connection or comfort, I know a close person is near. Oh and those days come often.

What are some daily, weekly, or annual/seasonal self-care practices that are beneficial to you? 
Daily: After a long day of “leaning in” presenting myself as an attachment figure and a secure base for my clients, I really like to “lean out” when I get home. I joke about it with family and friends but sometimes it’s helpful not to read anything to heavy, or watch any deep shows. I like to find a good series that has just the right amount of funny and depth that I can become involved in the character’s lives without being committed. Something about binge-watching just makes life fun. I don’t know if it’s a millennial thing or what. But knowing I can go home, snuggle on the couch and “lean out” for a while is rewarding. I also am trying to read more. I like to get into the Fictional stuff but as a therapist, it’s hard not to read things that I think will help me become a better clinician or help me understand my clients in some way. Another daily practice is intentionally washing my hands up to my elbows. A former supervisor of mine gave me this suggestion. She told me that after a long hard day of dealing with families who have been impacted by their loved one’s disease of addiction, she would intentionally wash her hands up to her elbows. Something about it helped her to disconnect and “wash the day away.”

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Weekly: We have a therapy dog in training. His name is Doc and he is the sweetest pet. His loyalty is 100% with his owner, but when she is not in earshot, I’d like to think he follows me wherever I go. I can’t say that I’ve ever had the opportunity to own a dog myself so the love of a pet is kind of new to me. He is the perfect napping companion. Super sweet and very forgiving!

Annual practices: I will go and sleep over at my friend’s house during the break. Even though she is a year younger than me, her house has really become like a Big Momma’s House. The kind of house everyone spends time at over the summers has Sunday dinners or just random holidays or birthday parties. It’s truly like everyone’s home.

Annual/Daily/whenever he lets me: I try to snuggle with my kiddo. Even if he’s watching Netflix, or if he is reading a story. I ask for snuggle time on the couch. Which typically consists of me sleeping under my favorite blanket and him sitting on top of my legs. Even though he is 8.5 and almost 4.5 feet tall, I promise he is never big enough for me to want snuggle time with him.

How have self-care practices impacted your life and work?
I am BIG on metaphors. One of the very first times I flew with my child, the flight attendant told me that in the event of an emergency, I was to put my mask on first and then assist my child. Initially, after hearing this I was in complete shock. I thought to myself “Who hires these people?! How could they utter such a thing?” But then the flight attendant went on to explain that if something were to happen to me, there would be no one available to assist my son. So when I think of self-care, I think of putting my mask on first. Helping myself so that I can help others. I am sure we have all heard the phrase “You can’t pour from an empty cup? Well, a colleague shared another phrase comes which was “you cannot sip from an empty cup”. Often times we talk about pouring from an empty cup, but that would imply that I am giving out to others, which I gladly do, but when I go to drink, I have nothing to restore myself. My self-care practices have been re-invented if you will. Initially thought I had to have a ton of money to take a vacation, or have weekly pedicures and then I looked at my bank account and thought again. But as I understood more, I learned that it isn’t about spending money as it is about spending intentional time! So, self-care looks like me taking a nap, or me not taking a phone call while I am trying to accomplish smaller tasks. 

What are some obstacles in this season of life that make self-care a challenge?
Ugh! I am a 2 on the Enneagram. Also known as the Helper. It is SUPER hard for me to know what I need. Typically, when I do, it’s because I’ve gotten to the end of my rope and I am just plain exhausted. In addition, working on my dissertation for my Ph.D. There is a fine balance between pushing through until I am done and knowing when enough is enough. Unfortunately, I haven’t come across a book or an article that tells me how to do either so I am working on it.

It is all about getting up and moving this year, not becoming the next Ninja Warrior! Drea Pryor | nashville self-care series

Are there any practices of self-care that you are implementing in 2018?
Oh yes! Walking more! My friends and I all have fit-bits and we have weekly challenges. I haven’t won many but I am encouraged to keep going and keep trying. It is all about getting up and moving this year, not becoming the next Ninja Warrior!

How does your industry/field practice or promote self-care?
I think we are very careful about caring for one another but also teaching one another to learn to care for ourselves. Sometimes in this field, we think we’ve got to work hard, show up when we don’t feel like it and work until after we are tired. I don’t think that’s the way to live. I don’t think we can teach our clients about good boundaries and self-care if we are not learning it ourselves.

How would your industry/field look different if self-care was a core value?
OH man! We would have a float tank in every office! Or we would really begin to implement self-care as part of our job description. One of the things we learn in grad school is about self-care and we are provided with a brief overview of what it looks like. But in my opinion, you don’t know you need self-care until you need it. You don’t know that you are on the edge of a burn out unless you’ve been burnt out before. Maybe we can be more preventative in the way we talk about self-care but I think the example would start with us.

Are there any books/movies/songs that are currently life-giving for you? 
I am reading A Man Called Ove.  It has been a long time since I’ve read a fictional book because I am always reading for class or for my clients. But this one is intriguing because I feel Ove has a very peculiar way of life and I like the idea of following him through it.
Books: The Shack! See the movie, and read the book. What a book about one man’s journey to self, the world and God. It is so moving yet humbling. It makes spirituality tangible.
Attachment-Focused EMDR by Laurel Parnell. Everyone who knows me knows that this is like my therapy BIBLE. I really like the way that Parnell approaches EMDR through an attachment lens. I keep one in every office I am in.
Song: Weightless by Marconi Union. That song is so good I downloaded it on iTunes just to play for myself.
Deep Focus station on Spotify. I am getting into more of the meditative music that allows me to slow down and reconnect with myself.
Ledisi: Bravo! I play this song after each and every hard trial. She speaks of giving yourself encouragement for making it through the challenge. Bravo!
Musiq Soulchild: Seriously, something about his music gets me motivated to write and get work done.
Movies: Moana! I can sing that all day long. I can watch it all day long as well. It reminds me so much of the culture I was raised back home in San Francisco. It also speaks to bravery beyond measure.
Black Panther: This movie just came out but it gives me so much life. I don’t typically follow the Marvel stories in order but I am a fan of the work that they do to produce such films. I recently saw the movie and kept calling it Wakanda! It was such a wonderful film full of culture and color. I left inspired.
Coco! Can you see that I am on a trend with culture here? I really was moved by Coco
especially after the passing of my brother and father in less than a year. For me, this
movie was a way for my brother to reach out and let me know that he is always with me
and that he will never leave my side. I just have to do my part in remembering him and sharing his legacy with others. 

Drea Pryor's story: I am at Trevecca pursuing my Ph.D. in Clinical Counseling Teaching and Supervision. It is my desire to one day teach outside the walls of a classroom. I hope to bring healing to a broader level. I am trained in EFT and Attachment-Focused EMDR. I often integrate the two in my work with individuals and couples. I have a part-time private practice where I help clients heal their relational trauma wounds. I was born and raised in San Francisco, CA and moved to Tennessee to attend Fisk Universtiy. I really love chocolate cake. It's a strange thing, but I seriously love it. Even though I am an EXTREME extrovert, I really enjoy my quiet time to "sit and look". I don't get to do it as often as I like but when I can, I try to cherish it. I've got an 8.5-year-old son who thinks he's a 7 on the Enneagram because "he's a charmer" and since he has lived his entire life with me in school I've promised him a trip to Disney Land & Sea a graduation gift from me to him. I can say he is truly a charmer but he is really the greatest gift I could have ever received.

Thanks again to Drea for sharing her experiences on self-care. If you are looking to add counseling into your self-care routine or are wondering if counseling would be beneficial, contact Jessica by filling out this form.